Summer 2023 . . . talking too much?

Oh how we all love to talk. If you are like most (and me included!), you cannot wait for someone to stop talking to respond with your opinion. I am working on that! We all value out own opinion, many times more than the opinions of others. How many times do we talk too soon and often too much?

As we read from Old Testament scriptures, the tongue can be very encouraging, but also very deadly!

He who speaks truth declares righteousness, But a false witness, deceit. There is one who speaks like the piercings of a sword, But the tongue of the wise promotes health. The truthful lip shall be established forever, But a lying tongue is but for a moment. (Proverbs 12: 17-19)

Jesus' brother James has some sage advice coming from one who was very close to the Word Himself . . . maybe he learned from experience to listen to Jesus more!

So then, my beloved brethren, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, slow to wrath; for the wrath of man does not produce the righteousness of God. (James 1: 19-20)

The apostle Paul gives us this advice as unwholesome talk can actually grieve God the Holy Spirit as well as damage the people around us. Gossip, rumor spreading, on-line chats, tweets, social media responses, coarse joking and "joning" on people can all lead to damaged character and sin.

Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful for building others up according to their needs, that it may benefit those who listen. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. (Ephesians 4:29-30)

My pastor is quick to remind us that we have a natural cage around our tongues . . . teeth! Keep that tongue guarded! Practice prayer before speaking!!!!